as a thin-skinned cule who is still not over the busquets incident: if you do have this conversation, please do it by PM and not in my journal where I get to see all the comment notifications. it was gross, I still don't know who to believe, I don't think a gif subtitled by a biased media outlet is sufficient evidence to hang a man's reputation but I will never trust him again and it was really traumatic for me so seriously: not in my journal. I realize this is a public post but it's still my space and I'd really like to not have to relive one of the worst fannish experiences of my life.